It’s terrible news when you have found out that you have a disease that will affect the rest of your life. Most kids don’t know that when you have sex, you are taking a very big risk on what will happen using a condom or pulling out is not the best method. You should get a vasectomy almost all of the time. Taking these things seriously is a priority for most men. To find a way to see if you have a disease, use an STD test kit at home. This will ease your mind.
Most methods of birth control don’t work well if you don’t take the time to read the instructions. The instructions are important. Plan B should be just that, a plan that you use in case something happens. You don’t want to stress your girl out if it breaks and you inseminate her. Calling her the next day and telling her that it happened on accident isn’t a fun conversation to have. She is usually mad and won’t call you back. The best way to have a conversation like this is to take things slowly. The woman in your life is a tree who should be watered and cared for.
If you are a female, you should insist that your man wears protection while have sex. He will not like this because it doesn’t feel as good. He may actually fight you on it. If he is a responsible adult, he will want to comply because he cares for what you want. Just because he is a “bad boy” doesn’t mean that he will make a good boyfriend. Your boyfriend should be someone who loves you and will do anything for you.
I know that my husband got fixed and we have been having a good time ever since. It’s fun to let him do things to me without consequence. We are very happy that we have made this decision. Most kids should not do this, but we know that it was the right thing to do at our age. It’s very cheap and comes in handy!